Scooter Saga

Disclaimer:  These posts happened in 2019.  Before the COVID–19 virus turned our world upside down.  Although I had plenty of material, I just couldn't get motivated to write.  Things may seem a bit out of date, but I just needed to decide to get busy and move on to 2020. The good part to owning a half interest in the co ndominium in Maui is that Earl and I can use 24 weeks  a year.  Our partners have to get by with only 8 weeks a year.  The bad part is that we get more meetings and home maintenance.  I know, I know. Quit whining. A first world problem...  The day before we arrived, there was a huge brushfire.  It closed the only road between Kihei and Lahaina.  Closing roads is a very low bar, since Maui isn't known for having many alter nate routes.   Fortunately by the time we got there, the road was open, the traffic was manageable, and all we had to contend with was the fire smoke.  Since the...

I have discovered that, as someone with Spinocerebellar Ataxia*, sometimes I'm my own worst enemy with regard to preventive health care.  Historically, I've always been a compliant patient, but frankly, having a disability has caused me to become a bit medically avoidant.  We had planned for our exit, but hadn't given the same attention to our maintenance.**  There was enough on my plate to keep track of.  My primary care provider said that I was due for everything.  Certainly, I couldn't control my Ataxia, but I could at least be proactive when it came to general health.   I just needed to do it and quit putting it off – sort of.   Adopting the philosophy,  "If it ain't broke, don't fix it", I began to list the essential healthcare to–dos. Dental cleaning and exam?  Absolutely!    Annual eye exam?  OK Annual mammogram?  Nope.  At 70, it's every two years.  See you next year.  I can hardly wa...

I always swore that I would graciously accept our grandchildren's preference for independence, adventure, and friends when the time came.  My children's grandmother never did. (Jeez Ada, it's adolescence, not personal! *)   They didn't need adults to play games, ride bikes, or go to the Sunriver mall anymore.  Although they still required some planning and transportation support, the annual family vacation went away and the 'friends' trip became very different.  The kids weren't the only ones to plan a 'friends' trip.  Earl and I were going to meet our long time friends this year in Sunriver and then join Heidi and Michael at the end, thinking that, although the grandkids and their friends were teens, they were still children.  We thought the Tenisons might need some help with four kids.  Spoiler alert: They didn't. Turned out, our friends couldn't make it. So Earl and I adjusted and joined Heidi and Michael for a laid back getaway...

Back in Lake Oswego, Earl and I were happy to resume our routine.  He was driving, walking, biking (a bit different now) and I was scooting on my 'new' Skeeter.  I don't think I had realized that there was some deterioration going on.  The speed going up hill had declined.  There was definitely more zip in the new one.   It had been nearly a year since Earl got his new hip*.  The bike accident primarily damaged the opposite side, so the hip prosthesis stayed in place.  He went in for the one year post–operative visit and was given a clean bill of health by the orthopedic surgeon. I was back to meeting my friend for Sunday coffee**.  We catch up on our families, current events, etc. and then I blissfully scoot the mile home, listening to music on my phone.   "What's Earl doing today?" she asked. "He's going for his first group bike ride.  Yay, Earl.  It's been a long uphill recovery." I'm halfway home when...

Earl was a dedicated, but realistic convalescer (is that even a word?)    He reluctantly cancelled a bucket list adventure to Borneo in the Spring, knowing he wouldn't be able to meet the hiking requirements.  It was a difficult, but reasonable decision. Determined to get back in biking condition within a year, he signed up for the Gran Fondo Whistler ride in September with a friend.  She too, had been hit by a car on her bike, had surgery on her injured shoulder, and eventually recovered to ride another day.  In fact, she had become one of Earl's mentors through this ordeal.     We headed back to Maui for most of March.  Tropical warmth feels better than Northwest rains to a healing bone structure.  This time Earl could walk and lift, so we were able to resume most of our usual routine.  We weren't going to run the risk of losing luggage this time*.  Because his shoulder was still weak however, I wasn't going to "latc...

We had spent the early part of December in Maui and returned home to enjoy Christmas.  We still wanted to host a traditional holiday dinner with friends and family, but were short on preparation time.  Much to one of our grandchild's dismay, we approached the holidays in a more casual way. Pam, the décor elf recycled some silver decorations from past years, added stars and created a lovely scaled down theme.  Like the good elf she was, she crept out while I slept*.  We thought about having a smaller tree.  Earl loved the idea.  My time had come — the tree Nazi was going down**. "But Grandma.  You need a big tree!" she said determinedly. "OK.  How about lights and no decorations?" I replied. Earl was wise enough to stay out of that fight.  He stood back to see who would prevail.  It was tough, but the two holiday dictators (grandmother and grandchild) managed a compromise.  My holiday tree elf* provided a big, well lit...

After Earl's bike accident in September*, enough healing had occurred (sort of) to allow a return to the warmth of Maui. He could sit and walk, but he still was protecting the injuries in his upper body.  Fortunately, we had friends and family accompanying us to do the 'heavy lifting'.  What heavy lifting, you say? Putting carry ons in the overhead compartment was one of those things he couldn't do at the time.  Flight attendants are always willing to help roll, but are prohibited from lifting, so we brought part of  'the village' with us. Ordinarily, Earl and I never check luggage.  We have our routine for getting on and off an airplane with minimal assistance from others**.  Usually, Earl puts his backpack carryon on his back, I latch on to his sho ulders and he walks me to our seat.  Then he lifts the carryons into the  overhead compartment   ( not this time) .  We're always the last people off the plane, I latch on to Earl's sh...