One would think this household merger didn't involve the needs of Earl and Michael; it's all about me and Heidi. Well, that's true, but she and I are halves (granted, the better half) of a married couple. For the most part, the four of us agree about the upsides and downsides of co-habitation. But I started thinking, there must be unique concerns to the other half. Full disclosure: Heidi's and my ataxia aside, this is a traditional, financially solvent household (that is no small deal) . We are two women married to two working, salaried men who leave the house before 8 am and usually return before 6 pm. That said, the marriages have historically been fairly equitable. Both men shop, clean, cook and take direction. Actually, Michael does more cleaning; Earl does more cooking. Heidi and Michael have been together 20 years. Getting to housemate know another person (even a son-in-law) is the more salient issue. Even though ...
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