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Mother Daughter Act

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Like it or not, Heidi and I are in this together ("Thanks, Mom" post) .  It's very different for me at 63, retired, grown children with families of their own, driving is still an option.  Ataxic, but considerably less affected than me, she's a young woman with young children, and spends a good part of her time in the car (soccer games, piano lessons, martial arts) .  My household has two adults, hers has two adults and two children in a very active phase of life.  I have all the time in the world to nap, read, or compute.  She is chronically sleep-deprived and committed 24–7.  I have lunch with friends, she hosts play dates.  I worry about falling in the shower while she worries about getting time for a shower.  Different generations, different concerns, different needs. So what started the Mother-Daughter show?  My physician invited me each year to demonstrate how SCA manifests on a neurological exam to her medical school class.  Sure, I thought–talking with a