Scooter Saga

My Elphaba/Wicked Witch Side* My Pollyanna Side Skeeter has turned out to be a good listener (listens to whatever I say)  and a good party guest (goes wherever I say). I once had a friend tell me how people who were always positive in the face of adversity pissed her off.  I completely agree.  It helps me to stay mostly positive by having the occasional pity party .   I aim to balance my "Pollyanna" side with my "Elphaba/Wicked Witch" side. Some people believe any negativity is to be avoided, or a downward, irreversible spiral into depression will follow.  Maybe, but like crying, it's more energy–sparing for me to welcome some self–pity and wallow away.  I often feel better, usually gain some insight, and can then move on.  "Pity–party" may be descriptive, but I have a better time if Skeeter and I are the only guests.  She never says a word about my splotchy face, swollen eyes, and snotty nose.  So don't hold your breath for an invita

I have alluded to this in the past, but when I sit down on Skeeter, I get this overwhelming, calming sensation.  When I'm scooting, there is at least a temporary reprieve from any potential fall.  I'm used to falls being an inevitable part of life and breaks (break as in "pause", not "fracture") from that are welcome.  The perfect fall (aside from none) is one where no injury is incurred, there are no witnesses, but first responders are at hand if required.  It's not that everyone hasn't fallen for one reason or another, and people are quick to offer aid and assistance, but it's embarrassing to the fallee and distressing to witnesses!  I'm happy to take responsibility for being clumsy, stupid, drinking too much wine–even the "I just fell" fall.  I just don't want to share responsibility with anyone, unless they pushed.  It is my party... A cane works for knees, hips & legs Trekking poles Initially, to aid