What do you do all day?
Zoe, our eight year old grand daughter, looked at me intently and asked, "Grandma, what do you do all day while Grandpa is at work?" I truly believe that when a child poses a direct, well thought–out question, she deserves a non-defensive, well thought–out answer.* Being ready with just the right response, I said, "Uhhh. Can I get back to you on that?" In all fairness, my hesitation was somewhat legitimate. Like the sex discussion (apart from it not being my job) , I didn't want to give information she didn't ask about. Zoe didn't need the blab, blab, blab about working inside vs. outside the home, men & women in employment settings, disability, ataxia, retirement, etc. It's not the first time I've heard the "What do you do?" question, but most often, it's from a societally–influenced, internal voice. Going somewhere else to work never needed justification. Involving retirement/home/productivity may introduce an ...